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I assume by surgery you mean a C-section? If so, I have been through 3 myself. It’s a very quick procedure once they get you prepped. I think it was 15-20 minutes tops from first cut to last stitch. The worst part will be the recovery, and I urge you to get up and moving as quickly as possible. Within 12 hours if allowed. It really helps. Also keep on top of the pain medication, the pain can and will take your breath away (voice of experience, was on the phone with my husband and literally started gasping because a wave of pain hit and my meds were late). Keep a small pillow or folded up blanket to press to your abdomen when you laugh or cough for like 3 weeks, it’s the worst. Definitely listen to the doctors when they say no lifting, I overdid it with my first and it caused my stitches to pop and I needed more.

Not trying to scare you, just trying to help prepare a little. Just take it easy on yourself, let everyone do everything for you if you can for a little while. That’s the fastest way to heal, just take two weeks to kinda veg out.

Good luck to you, and congrats on making it this far! Every day those sweet little girls got to stay was a blessing. Will be saying a prayer for you, your girls, and your doctors :)

Thank you so much guys! @FallenShadows714 yes, I'm getting a c-section. Both girls are breech at the moment. Even if they weren't they dont think it would be safe with the size difference to allow a normal birth. I'm scared I wont be able to take care of my babies properly :(

@Amgr1992 As long as they have a safe place to sleep, a bottle with their formula, warm clothes and love, that’s all they need for awhile! No way to really mess that up! And just remember, your little girls already love you. They know your heartbeat and the sound of your voice, sometimes all it will take is to hold them close and a little singing or some whispered words of love. Never underestimate the calming power of a cuddle with a newborn, for both baby and mom :) hang in there, we are all supporting you

Sending all the good vibes, well wishes and prayers your way!

Congrats and sending you hugs as you get to meet your babies.

Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers over thus holiday season.

Yay! Best wishes for you guys :x

Oh awesome!

Thank you guys! Every day is a blessing. It's so unpredictable right now!